Marriage

Today's post would be more on the serious side of me.
So, let's start.
One man and one woman meet,
fell in love,
got married, 
have babies,
and live a happy life.

So that's what I thought this world is made up.
But it isn't.
Getting posted to my current school opened up my eyes a lot.
Seeing kids from broken families,
with either their fathers ran away or got married with other women,
or the mothers are the ones who ran away or got married with other men,
and who are the ones who suffer?
Their children!

I don't understand certain parents' mentality.
Like how can they just divorce and eventually dumped their children to their parents to take care.
Not even providing the basic needs as well as financial needs for those innocent ones.
And the next question would be,
why get married if at the end of the day, you will eventually lose feelings to your partner?
why make those innocent little ones suffer under your childish acts?
Is marriage solely based on your lust for one another?
To make sex between the two of you look much more "valid" after getting marriage certificates?

These are the people that I despise the most.
The ones who get married in their young ages in the name of love,
and eventually couldn't resist temptations out there,
and thus, sacrifice their little ones for their own selfish purposes.
If getting married is only for sex or only to share in your st**id social medias,
or to gain as much likes as possible in your pre-wed photos,
or to just wear that wedding dresses that you dream of,
then please, like seriously please, dont get married.
Dont mar your life just for your stupid fantasy.

Marriage is responsibility and commitment.
If you can't handle these two big things,
then don't even get started with it.
Marriage should be beautiful.
So please keep the beauty in it,
and dont ruin it just for your selfish reasons.

There goes my long post of the night. Hope you enjoyed reading a little piece of my mind. 
Jenny~