new principle?

i learnt one more thing.
if u want to start a relationship, start one where u know u would not waste ur time..
if u just wanna start a relationship for the sake of having a companion, having someone to hug u, having someone who hold ur hands but never thought of the future, then why waste time?
and sometimes i dont get how some ppl says that they are not in a relationship with this guy or girl.. but calling him or her all the pet names and yet insist that they are currently single? weird, confusing and frustrating for me..

for my friends who thinks getting engaged and married is something so wonderful and magical, i have several questions for you.
1. are you ready to be committed with your one and only husband or wife for the rest of your life?
2. are you ready to sacrifice for your one and only husband or wife after getting married?
3. are you ready to have kids?
4. are you ready to juggle your time between becoming a faithful wife or husband and work without neglecting one another?
5. are you sure you are able to become a good wife and a mother or a good husband and a father?
6. are you ready to accept everything about your husband or wife as in everything?
and last but not least, are you sure you would not regret and turn back, saying that you would rather enjoy your carefree life first before getting married?

so to those who wanna get married or engaged,
if u have found someone whose worth it and someone you really know like the back of your hand,
if you have found someone whom you are able to accept his or her weaknesses and accept his or her as he or she is,
if you have someone whom you have attached to for a good period of time for you to know that person well, then i would really encourage you to do so..

if not, dont sacrifice for something that you might never know when you will regret... dont get engaged or married just for the sake u are jealous seeing others are doing the same thing... and dont get engaged or married just for the sake of thinking it would be happy and everlasting like in the movies.. it isnt coz it is filled with responsibilities and commitments which is easier said than done..

as for me, i need a break from all these things.. so am not thinking about marriage and getting engaged.. the most important thing is for me to graduate, work and earn money for my family.. relationship? engagement? marriage? i leave it to God..

Jenny~