ok, so i said in my previous post that i would relate the 6 qualities that my aunt described to me (in details) to my own selection for my future partner..
basically, i dont have anyone right now so yeah, i dont even know whether i would have the chance to use this checklist..
but anywhooooo, here comes the description:
A - age
~ so basically, she said that i should seek for a guy whose not too old for me or too young for me.. and yeah, i wanted someone whose older than me next time and i hope he makes the decisions in everything and compromise with me sometimes in certain choices.. =D
B - background
~ aunt say i must seek for a guy with a good family background.. well, i think this is because every good deeds start from home? haha.. well, a good family will produce a good child and i believed in that. the influences from parents are indeed strong enough to reflect through one's actions and deeds.. so yeah, i gotta find someone with a good family background..
C - character
~ so, understandable based on the key word.. a guy that has good characters.. u name it and yes, it goes under this point.. hehe..
D - dormitory
~ ok, aunt said that i must find a guy with a house first.. and this causes disagreement from my mom.. well, in my opinion, i think the guy must have started some investment or have some investment plans for the two of us in the future is he wanna be with me for a long time right? so, conclusion here, is u dont need to have a house to make me want u... haha...
E - educational level
~ this is important so the guy i chose is not dumb? haha.. basically, he must be of the same level or higher par than me.. and does this mean i should not go for masters till i find one? haha.. im confused!
F - faithfulness
~ most important of all the qualities mentioned.. and this is one thing that i seek the most in one person, regardless as the one or as a friend.. i believe that if he wants me, he must be faithful to me.. pyhsically, and mentally.. seriously.. haha..
so in conclusion, this is the checklist that i might use when i meet someone next time.. but if i dont or unable to use this checklist, i guess my readers could learn and maybe adapt it and use it their own selection process? haha.. nevertheless, i have more things i seek in a person after the first failed relationship.. cant blame me though.. haha..
since when less than three became so complicated?
Jenny~
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